Dark Days & Keeping it Real ~orienting ourselves in trying times…

“The Chinese use two brush strokes to write the word ‘crisis.’ One brush stroke stands for danger; the other for opportunity. In a crisis, be aware of the danger–but recognize the opportunity.”

― John F. Kennedy

M

erry Meet Pagan Peoples!  I think one thing as a country we can all agree upon (for once) is the trying nature of our current health crisis.   What will define us as humans and the character of our country will be how we move through these seriously trying times.

Let us grab a cup of our favorite nerve-calming tea (mine is honey ginger crystals as we speak) and have a chat witch-to-witch in an attempt to orient ourselves appropriately.   As previously mentioned in The Magic of 2020 and the Cancer Full Moon blog posts, this year would bring many challenges both in issues of material scarcity and our relation to social systems.  The writing was on the wall for some sort of swift change to take place, however, I don’t believe any of us could know how it would play out.

The Kennedy quote starting this piece was chosen due to its simple and pared-
down truth…..our planet, our country and our communities
Crisisare in danger crisis and there is no escaping it.  I cannot speak for everyone’s experience, but from my own, I have seen people on both ends of the spectrum.  From seriously freaked out to casually not thinking it is that big and everything in-between.  The panicked energy in the streets and in the stores is palpable, which for us empathic and intuitive types is toxic and immobilizing in of itself if one is not on-guard.  Though one need not be psychic or intuitive to feel the fear.  At one end we have people bogarting toilet paper and bleach to the other end where college kids are at the beach carrying on like it’s nothing.

Anyone with a modicum of sense realizes that we are truly in a place of danger and as a community, it is everyone’s responsibility to keep each other safe.  As in any other situation, we can choose to respond or react.   This choice will determine our success.

In these times it is normal for people to freak out, become fearful and overwhelmed or shut down and become depressed.  People may feel alone and isolated, confused, lost, suicidal and unsure of what to do.  I, personally, have experienced all of these emotions and situations in my life at one time or another and I am sure I am not alone in this.  However, having gotten this far in my life, I also know that as in all else, those feelings and situations are temporary, I do possess the ability, intelligence and power to move beyond it.   The downfall leading to most failures in such situations is feelings of depression, helplessness, powerlessness and overwhelm.  The way to combat these emotions and be successful is always forward movement of some kind, even if it’s incremental.  This is where magic and practical mundane living go hand in hand-both need a plan, idea or need and a jumping-off point or an initiator spark.  We are witches for goddess sakes-we know how to make a spark!

The first order of business is to STAY CALM for ourselves and our family so that we can keep a level head about us and Find Our Bearings!

~FIND (ONE’S) BEARINGS-to recognize or determine one’s orientation, position or abilities relative to one’s surroundings or situation.~

In finding our bearings we must first identify the situation-which we all understand to be the ‘Virus that Shall not Be Named’ (in actuality we know its name but I don’t want to have this piece blocked, so just in case…) and arm ourselves with factual information.    One of the most important acts we can do is to take care of our health.  This means getting quality sleep, safeguarding our immune system against inflammation and bacteria (such as making Immune Booster Brew) and mindfully processing stress.  I say mindfully process because there is no way around the fact that this health crisis will impact every person on some level.  Stress causes an inflammation response in our bodies which leaves us susceptible to illness.

The second thing to do is to determine our position and abilities.  This is where opportunities arise and will look different for everyone.  We must take into account fiduciary responsibilities, family members, health, age, housing, personal strenghts and level of preparedness.  This is not a time to judge yourself or others, it is simply a time to look at the facts and take stock.   Inform yourself with quality information-the podcast with Rogen is pretty informative.

Armed with the facts about your situation will lead to the third step of creating an action plan asking ourselves:  what do I need to do now, what can I do in the short term and what needs to be planned for in the long term?

For my family this has translated into ‘business as usual’.  What does that look like in the real world?  Knowing what was written in the stars coupled with the fact that we are so far from a store, my family did put up some supplies-though little did we know TP would be such a hot commodity, LOL.   In addition to our business Euphoric Naturals & Apothecary, I also work as a teacher.  This meant preparing kids at school on our last day and finishing up paperwork this last week, before being sent home to self-isolate.  Now, this wasn’t part of our plan as I didn’t foresee being off work or my child being home for five weeks, which equates to the use of more food and TP.   My husband is still commuting to work.  As with many businesses, they want everyone working from home, but we are in a dead zone and lack the internet speed (insert heavy sigh and eye roll here).  It means I still get up early and see my husband off, do my workout and have a cup of tea or coffee to enjoy the quiet before my handsome son blesses me with his presence.  I am diligent about wearing amethyst and black tourmaline to protect my auric field and combat the vibes of rising panic (especially when I go out for supplies or converse with others.)  I sit at my planner and review what tasks I need to accomplish for the day.   

For the now- we spent the weekend getting grocery items and building supplies to fill in any gaps.  I have a teenager which meant conversations around going to the school to getting learning packets from some of his teachers as well as expectations around the structure of his day which will include time out of doors, exercise, reading and working on educational things, not just video games all day.  For us, it also meant a conversation around food-making sure he didn’t skip breakfast and would result in wanting to eat more lunch and dinner foods that might not be available due to long term meal planning.

In the short term, it meant reaching out first to my family members, friends and coven mates to check on them.  Next, because we are all in this together, it meant reaching out to my community and school to assess needs and see where I could be of help.  As a counselor and ordained minister, I am able to offer assistance to community members and since I have a car I am able to be a meal runner for our schools.  This, of course, could change as needs arise on our social media forums.   The opportunity for family time is wide open-game nights, puzzles, cooking lessons, dirt bike rides, etc.  Setting a structured plan for my son’s time, much to his chagrin, that doesn’t include video games all day is a pretty high priority, because….business as usual.  Next on the list is to attend to our sacred space and home with a deep spring cleaning with Florida Water to clear out all the winter bogies and allergins, followed by a thorough smudging.  Black Obsidian is stationed under our beds, couches and both doors.   It is important at this time to keep the energies in our home clear of stress and panic.  At this time we start getting the garden ready and now have time to take seeds we blessed at the previous full moon and get them potted up in the greenhouse.  It’s also a good time to practice some candle magic.  I have a lavendar and cedarwood oiled orange candle for courage burning during the day and a blue peppermint candle burning for peace in the evening.  

In the long term, it means acknowledging this is something that could have long-lasting effects on product and food production.  For my family this is asking how do we manage our dollars and what does our skinny budget look like?  How can we slowly put aside a few staples here and there?  If you have the ability to grow your own food, then do so.  If you already grow food how can your ramp up food production to take your family further through the year as well as help your community?  We are ramping up what we grow in our garden this year and preparing to save seeds.  It’s time to dust off the to-do list of projects that take longer than a few hours and start chipping away at it, whether that be house and yard maintenance, cleaning out pantries and closets, completing some Book of Shadow pages, learn a new skill, revive an old skill, try out a new recipe, learn more about your favorite element, divination method, god or goddess, meditate, take time to slow dance, organize, read that stack of books that have piled up and reconnect with ourselves and the land.  Make plans for different ways to celebrate family.  It means at our new moons and full moons we are striving for protection of family, health, finances, and community while manifesting abundance and balance.  

The time at home with family is unprecedented but has given all of us such an opportunity to pull together as a unit and a community.  The choice is what we do with the time and situations as they arise.  For us it is focusing on family, helping each other stay positive, being gentle with ourselves & others and most important of all-keeping our sense of humor.

From our family to yours, we wish everyone balance, safety, abundance & sanity!

“Every test successfully met is rewarded by some growth in intuitive knowledge, strengthening of character, or initiation into a higher consciousness.”

― Paul Brunton

 

How are you making the most of your time?…..we would love to hear from you!

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